Did you experienced crying out loud because you won on your championship game? Or did you experienced hugging your newest girlfriend because she answered yes after the long courtship without realizing that it can changed her mind, vice versa? Did you experienced how painful to lose a game? Or did you experienced staying the room for almost half of the day without any intention to eat or just take a bath because your girlfriend broke you up, vice versa?
All of these, we experienced or not, it depends in us on how we handle it. Thus, I want to share with you my collection about the commandments of winners to losers:
Winners…
Make commitments…
Say I was wrong when they make a mistake…
Works harder and therefore has more time to spare…
Goes through a problem…Says, “lets find out”…
Shows he is sorry by making up for it…
Listens…
Says, “there ought to be a better way to do it…”
Respects his superiors and tries to learn from them…
Takes a big problem and separates it into smaller parts so that it can be more easily tackled…
Learns from his mistakes…
Tries never to hurt people and does only rarely, when it serves a higher purpose.
Is God Centered…
Disciplined… Optimistic… Never quits… Risk Taker… Industrious… Has a sense of humor…
Losers…
Makes promises they can’t keep…Says, “It’s not my fault” when they make a mistake…
Is always too busy to do what is necessary…
Goes around problem and never gets past it…
Says, “nobody knows…”
Says, “I’m sorry” but repeat the same mistake.
Just wait until it’s his turn to talk…
Say’s “That’s the way it’s always been done here…”
Resents his superiors and tries to find kinks in their armor.
Takes a lot of little problems and rolls them together until they are completely unsolvable…
Avoids making mistakes by never trying anything different…
Never wants to hurt people intentionally, but does so all the time without even realizing it…
Is self-centered…Undisciplined…Pessimistic…Easily gives up…Paralyzed by fear…Lazy…Dull…
So why not try all these commandments of winners and avoid the commandments of losers for sure it will guide your long way journey…